Should I leave my boyfriend of 2 years if he cheated on me? 9
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Question: Should I leave my boyfriend of 2 years if he cheated on me?
Okay so, Im really in love with someone at the moment. Unfortunately He has done me wrong. I was married because It was good for me economically, and I had no supporters. My husband was a great man until I found out that he was engaged to 3 women at the same time and was using the millitary money to buy other women jewelry. I stayed home all day with my cousin and I just hoped that I could one day return back to Florida. I left my boyfriend of two years I still loved him, he just took me for granted. I came back to Florida and we had decided to give it a second try. So I got a full paid scholarship to New York city and I went to become a certified nursing assistant, and then study to become a registered nurse. One day out of the open he starts telling me that , If he had the opportunity to cheat on me that he would. I later get a text message form a girl telling me that she has been sleeping with my boyfriend and that hes been seeing her for about 2 months. I didn’t believe her, and I didn’t mention anything to him until a month later. she texted me from his phone and told me to leave him alone, and that she was his new girlfriend. Not to mention that I am the one who pays for the phone bill. I blamed myself for everything that was going on, because I thought that maybe if I was still in miami things would of been different. I DIDNT have family at all, because Im a foster kid, and so the scholarship was truly a blessing. I couldnt focus in school so they dropped me out of the state university there. I moved back to Miami, And I didnt come out of my condo for a week in Miami, and lost 20 lbs. I dont know what to do because he tells me that he loves me, but that he says that he wanted to try something new. He told me that he only wanted a companion because he was feeling lonely. I retaliated and told him that I have been aloen for all of my life, but people never wanted excuses from me. People Just wanted Results!!
But She forwarded me all the text msgs and she said that he told her that he is tired of me, because I leave him all alone In miami, but I did it because The bills will not get paid if I dont work, cuz I had lost my job down here, and I did everything I could do to possibly keep him happy.
He told me that he thought that I was going to just leave and that he didnt think that I had deserved him. Because he is too much of a good man for me to handle. That I dont have a family, but I use it too my advantage.
I don’t feel sorry for myself, because My life isn’t about feeling sorry for myself, every day in my life was a disappointment before I met him and I got my life together. I just never expected him to do this to me. Because even though I did love him with all of my heart I know I didnt deserve this. Ive always had to work hard for everything and lived in allot of homes, and yet I never complained about it because I had to grow up a long time ago and I never had a childhood.
So he told me that if it didn’t work out with her that he would forever be committed to me. So I am so devastated I didn’t know what to say and just hung up. And now he is begging me to come back to him, because he realized that he wants to be with me for the rest of his life. But yet he is telling me that he is commited to me, but doesnt plan on marrying me until 3 years from now.
he puts a hold on everything, because hes scared of being hurt. And I dont know what to do anymore, because I have been hurt all of my life. and Its hard to remember the good moments, and I cant talk to anyone because He was my only friend. So Your advise would help.
Thank u!


